a massive kick in the ass.
i swear my dad is going to give me a heart attack. i feel like i'm the mother of a stubborn, idiot teenager who won't listen to anything i say so i must resort to saying things very slowly, like Bill Cosby, and repeating questions like: can you understand me? do you understand why i'm telling you this?
when i tell him that i disagree with his choices and that his choices make me afraid for his future and upset me,thus making my chest hurt a little, what's his response?
"well, i won't tell you my plans for the future, then."
that's not the solution, old man! the correct answer is change your plans! they're bad plans!
my left hand is sort of tingling. is that a bad sign?